LOS ANGELES, Sept 29 — Justin Bieber is opening up more about his previous relationship with Selena Gomez saying that they were so in love that nothing else mattered

Bieber admitted that is was the constant fighting that ultimately led to the couple’s demise, as it eventually became too much for either to handle. And despite all of the nasty fights, he reveals that he did learn a lot from the romance.

“We were so in love. Nothing else mattered. We were all about each other. But when it’s like that and you get your value from that, people will always disappoint you. Your girl or your dude, they’re always going to disappoint you. Your full identity can’t be in that person. My identity was in her. Her identity was in me.”

“I learned a lot,” Bieber said of his romance with Gomez, which started in 2011. “I moved in with my girlfriend when I was 18. Started my own life with her. It was a marriage kind of thing. Living with a girl, it was just too much at that age.”

“Love is a choice. Love is not a feeling. People have made it seem in movies that it’s  

Bieber and Gomez separated in 2014, after breaking up multiple times during their three-year relationship.